The Life and Times of Mary Lou
Sunday, August 7, 2011
Aug. 7 '11 fullfillment of a long time dream
Today I arose at 9:30ish, got into the shower, ate some breakfast and headed out for an 11:30 appointment at SkyDown Idaho. This is a Sky Diving facility at Caldwell Airport. Paul is my co-pilot this morning, Amanda, Phil, Keegan, Mindy and Tristan will join us at noon. We arrive five mins. early and Denise greets us and has me go sit down and watch a video and fill out all these papers agreeing to not sue them should something go wrong. Next it is off to be advised how to depart from the plane, a visit to the rest room, and them we are choosing my jump suit. After I am suited up we are sent to the viewing area to watch a couple of jumpers who are up already.
As the jumpers come into view a young man, don't remember his name, comes over and fits me into a harness and goes over the instructions with me. The plane taxi's in the jumpers are landing and I am being hustled toward this plan that doesn't look very safe. One of the jumpers runs across the strip grabs a chute and heads for me, he checks all my belts and pulls a couple of them tighter tells me he is Mark and asked if I am ready. As we approach the plane he goes over the instructions for departing the plane one more time. He them tells me to get in and sit on my bottom next to the pilot with my legs stretched out, he then gets in and sits facing me on his knees. The plane begins to move, the door is still open and I am thinking "oh shit." are we flying with the door open? We taxi down the strip, turn left reved the engine and begin to get serious about leaving the ground. About the time we are leaving the ground Mark closes the door( I am very glad. As we are soaring higher and higher we exchange some information and make small talk. I find out that Mark makes up to 10 jumps a day, and Ken, the pilot, has been flying for 18 years. They bullshit and tell me funny stories...including that Ken doesn't have a license and that the plane is out of gas. Ken tells me that he wrecked a plane a couple of months ago and he walked away but the plane didn't. Mark is filming most of the conversation and we are flying higher and higher. Just before 10K feet, Mark has me turn with my back to him sitting on my knees. He then latches us together and opens the door, he steps one foot out on this tiny step and I am to do the same. I am thinking God how are going to get out of here? So we both have one foot on the step and I have my head leaned on his shoulder and am grasping my harness and I am momentary scared to death. I take a deep breath and Mark leans sideways and we are soaring thru space. It is the most extraordinary thing I have ever done. In a very short time he taps my shoulder and I can extend my arms, shortly after that he pulls the chute and we stop falling and I drop down below him a few inches. He allows me to hold the guide handles and direct our direction. He sends us in circles and we look and talk all the way down. I told him "I love you, Mark thank you for making this happen." He tells me that at some point soon he was going to have me hold my leg's straight out like I was sitting on the ground and we would be landing. I asked if it would hurt and he said "no" that injuries happen when the legs are allowed to drop and I wasn't gonna do that. What he didn't tell me was that he was gonna sit us down in dirt so fine it was like sugar. When we landed there was this huge cloud of dust and we were both covered with dirt. We laid there on the ground for a very short time talking and letting the dust settle. He asked if I would do it again and I said "in a heartbeat!"
Even though I was very scared when it came to leaving the plane, I have never experienced anything like this in my whole life. It was so free, so beautiful, and we even seen a hawk on the way down. He just soared right by us. This is one thing that I will never forget and hope to do again real soon. I now know why birds sing.
Monday, June 13, 2011
I am very sad
I am truly sad.....
I have a friend that I love like my sister and she can not be happy for me........I am truly sad ....
I don't know how to make her understand that I need her blessing...I know she misses the time we spent together....please understand there will still be time for us...just right now I need time for me.... I love her very much...I know she loves me...she just can't be happy for me...I am very sad....
I have a friend that I love like my sister and she can not be happy for me........I am truly sad ....
I don't know how to make her understand that I need her blessing...I know she misses the time we spent together....please understand there will still be time for us...just right now I need time for me.... I love her very much...I know she loves me...she just can't be happy for me...I am very sad....
WOW! Here it is the second week in June...school is out...summer has begun and still the weather is like March or maybe April. I am so ready for it to be really summer. Keegan is finished with Soccor, Tristan is playing t-ball, of course my girls are playing softball and Olivia has a boy friend. All the Buchta grand kids have grown into young adults and yet I don't know where the time has gone.
My beautiful mother has shrunk into an old lady and my aunt Maggie is laying in a hospital bed fighting for her life. My sisters and their families are well and my wonderful brood are all doing well. My life is wonderful and I am truly blessed.
Paul and I took a fast trip to NYC and checked out the sights, spent a day in Seattle and have spent many hours walking the river filming birds of all types. If I can get the time off we will be going to Red Fish Lake in July, with his family. I haven't been to Red Fish Lake in years.
Still haven't heard from Cecil and Dorla yet, Scotty and Celeste had their wedding ceremony, Keegan turned 4, Tim will be marring his Shelly in 3 weeks, I am going to the Emmett Cherry Festival this wed. and possibly this weekend.
That is about all that has been happening in my life right now..so till later..have a great life..
My beautiful mother has shrunk into an old lady and my aunt Maggie is laying in a hospital bed fighting for her life. My sisters and their families are well and my wonderful brood are all doing well. My life is wonderful and I am truly blessed.
Paul and I took a fast trip to NYC and checked out the sights, spent a day in Seattle and have spent many hours walking the river filming birds of all types. If I can get the time off we will be going to Red Fish Lake in July, with his family. I haven't been to Red Fish Lake in years.
Still haven't heard from Cecil and Dorla yet, Scotty and Celeste had their wedding ceremony, Keegan turned 4, Tim will be marring his Shelly in 3 weeks, I am going to the Emmett Cherry Festival this wed. and possibly this weekend.
That is about all that has been happening in my life right now..so till later..have a great life..
Saturday, May 14, 2011
Birding
I can't be sure but I think it was Feb. 2009 that Bob Whitlatch introduced me to the joys of birding. A walk on the river, with a be quite and listen followed by a trip to Eagle to see Burrowing Owls and I was off. I spent that year traveling pretty much alone and then joining a couple of clubs. Last year 2010 RoseMary Paasch joined me and this year it is RoseMary, Paul and myself. The stared birds are "lifers" or first time ever to see...goal is 500
2009 birds ALL IDAHO
1. American Robin
2.Quail
3.Horn Lark
4.Meadow Lark
5.Red Tailed Hawk
6.Sharp Shined Hawk
7.Harrier Hawk
8.Magpie
9.Red Shafted Flicker *
10.Pheasant
11.Peacock
12.Quinea fowl
13.Kestral
14.Red winged blackbird
15.Raven
16.Mourning Dove
17.Song Sparrow
18.Great Horned Owl*
19.White crowned sparrow
20.Starling
21.Junco*
22.Ruby crowned Kinglet*
23.House Finch
24.Rock Dove (pigon)
25.Black-capped Chickadee*
26.American Crow
27.Burrowing Owl*
28.Belted King Fisher
29.Northern Flicker
30.Western Grebe
31.Spotted Sandpiper
32.Bald Eagle
33.White Pelican
34.Downey Woodpecker*
35.Mtn Blue Bird*
36.Snipe*
37.Great Blue Heron
38.Yellow Headed Blackbirds*
39.Osprey
40.Barn swallows
41.mud swallows*
42.Cedar wax wings*
43Vultures
44.Dusty Flycatcher*
45.humming bird
46.Lazuli Bunting*
47.Brewers Blackbirds
48.Cowbird*
49.pine finch*
50.goldfinch*
Birding 2010
Florida
1.Great White Egret*
2.Cattle Egret*
3.Black headed turkey vultures*
4.Brown Pelican
5.White Pelican
6.Florida Cormorant*
7.Great Blue Heron
8.Green Heron*
9.Greater Flamingo*
10.Roseate Spoonbill*
11.White Ibis*
12.Wood Stork*
13.Mottie Duck*
14.Greater Sand Crane*
15.Black Skimmer*
16 many gulls...not sure of type
17.Kingbird*
18.northern Mockingbird*
19.Peregrin Falcon*
20.Red sholdered Haws*
21.Snowy Egret*
22.Summer Tanager*
23. red winged Blackbirds
24.many sparrows
25.Osprey
Iowa birds
1.Cardinal*
2.Baltimore Orioles*
3.Cat Bird*
4.Blue Jay*
5.yellow finch*
6.Pileated Woodpecker*
7.Red headed turkey vultures
Idaho
1.Eastern Kingbird*
2.Brewer Blackbirds
3.Magpies
4.Horned Larks
5.Long Billed Carlew*
6.Western Kingbirds*
7.Meadow Larks
8.Sage Thrusher*
9.Lark Sparrow*
10.Robin
11.Killdeer
12.mourning Dove
13.Brewers Blackbird
14.Cowbird*
15.Pewee*
16.Red tailed Hawk
17.Lewis Woodpecker*
18.Yellow Warblers*
19.Bullock Orieole*
20.Luzili Bunting
21.Kestrel
22.Pine Siskin*
23.Cassins Finch*
24.Osprey
25.Turkey Vultures
26.Ferrugirous Hawk*
27.Goldfinch
28.Lesser Goldfinch*
29.Hummingbirds
30.Mtn Blue Birds
31.Fly Catcher*
32.Ravin
33.Wilsons Warbler*
34.Tree Swallows*
35.Mallard Duck
36.Canada Geese
37.barn swallow
38.spotted sandpiper
39.Great Blue Heron
40.quail
41.snipes
42.Common Night Hawk*
43.Sand Grouse*
44.Golden Eagles
45.Ruff winged Swallows*
46.House Wren*
47.Cliff Swallows*
48.Phoebe Says*
49.Vesper Sparrow*
50.Chirping Sparrow*
51.Double crested Cormorant*
52.Gray flycatcher*
53.SWage sparrow*
54.white collard dove*
55.American Coot*
56.Western Grebe
57.Ringed Neck Duck*
58.Crested Flycatcher*
59.Cedar Waxwing
60.Borthern Shoveler*
61.Harry woodpecker*
62.Lesser Scaup*
63.Ash Throated Flycatcher*
64.Calliope Hummingbird*
65.spotted Towhee*
66.Townsend warbler*
67.warbling vireo*
68.Ruby Crowned Kinglet*
69.Western wood pewee*
70.blackcapped chickadee
71.king fisher
72.Common Merganser*
73.Junco
74.yellow rump warbler*
75.falcon*
76.Northern Pintail*
77.Gadwell*
78.American Wigeon*
79.green winged teal*
80.canvas backed duck*
81.Red Headed duck*
82.Baffel head duck*
83.Ruddy duck*
84.Mutted swans
85.canada goose
86.Pied billed Grebe*
87.western grebe
88.eared grebe*
89.Horned grebe*
90.Sharpie hawk*
91.ringed billed gull
92.rock wren*
93.gray partridge*
94.quail
95.wood duck*
96.townsend solitare*
97.Northern Harrier
98.rough legged hawk
99.California Gull
100.Marsh wren*
101.Virginia Rail..heard not seen*
102.Pippet*
103.robin
104.Black crowned night heron*
105.loon*
106.pine siskins
107.Killdeer
108.rock wren* heard not seen
109.downey woodpecker
110.Great white egret
111.Snipe
112.Long billed Dowitcher*
113.Hooded Merganser*
114.Tundra Swans*
115.Hering gull
116.Merlin*
117.clarks grebe*
118.least sandpiper*
119.Lincoln sparrow*
120.savanas sparrow*
121.red headed woodpecker*
122.semi palmated plover*
123. yellow legs plover*
124.Eastern muted gull
TAHITT BIRDS
1.Myna*
2.Red-venter bulbul*
3.Zebra Dove*
4.Lesser Golden Plover
5.Common Fairy Terns*
6.Wedge tailed Sharewater*
7.Tahiti Petrel*
8.Great Pacific Heron*
9.Great Crested Terns*
10.White bellied storn Petrel*
11.Brown Noddys*
12.Rock Doves
13.Red Jungle fowl
14.Wandering Tattler*
15.Chestnut Brested Mannikin*
16.Lesser Frigate birds*
17.Swamp Harrier*
18.Polynesian Imperial Pigeon* (127) 127)
2009 birds ALL IDAHO
1. American Robin
2.Quail
3.Horn Lark
4.Meadow Lark
5.Red Tailed Hawk
6.Sharp Shined Hawk
7.Harrier Hawk
8.Magpie
9.Red Shafted Flicker *
10.Pheasant
11.Peacock
12.Quinea fowl
13.Kestral
14.Red winged blackbird
15.Raven
16.Mourning Dove
17.Song Sparrow
18.Great Horned Owl*
19.White crowned sparrow
20.Starling
21.Junco*
22.Ruby crowned Kinglet*
23.House Finch
24.Rock Dove (pigon)
25.Black-capped Chickadee*
26.American Crow
27.Burrowing Owl*
28.Belted King Fisher
29.Northern Flicker
30.Western Grebe
31.Spotted Sandpiper
32.Bald Eagle
33.White Pelican
34.Downey Woodpecker*
35.Mtn Blue Bird*
36.Snipe*
37.Great Blue Heron
38.Yellow Headed Blackbirds*
39.Osprey
40.Barn swallows
41.mud swallows*
42.Cedar wax wings*
43Vultures
44.Dusty Flycatcher*
45.humming bird
46.Lazuli Bunting*
47.Brewers Blackbirds
48.Cowbird*
49.pine finch*
50.goldfinch*
Birding 2010
Florida
1.Great White Egret*
2.Cattle Egret*
3.Black headed turkey vultures*
4.Brown Pelican
5.White Pelican
6.Florida Cormorant*
7.Great Blue Heron
8.Green Heron*
9.Greater Flamingo*
10.Roseate Spoonbill*
11.White Ibis*
12.Wood Stork*
13.Mottie Duck*
14.Greater Sand Crane*
15.Black Skimmer*
16 many gulls...not sure of type
17.Kingbird*
18.northern Mockingbird*
19.Peregrin Falcon*
20.Red sholdered Haws*
21.Snowy Egret*
22.Summer Tanager*
23. red winged Blackbirds
24.many sparrows
25.Osprey
Iowa birds
1.Cardinal*
2.Baltimore Orioles*
3.Cat Bird*
4.Blue Jay*
5.yellow finch*
6.Pileated Woodpecker*
7.Red headed turkey vultures
Idaho
1.Eastern Kingbird*
2.Brewer Blackbirds
3.Magpies
4.Horned Larks
5.Long Billed Carlew*
6.Western Kingbirds*
7.Meadow Larks
8.Sage Thrusher*
9.Lark Sparrow*
10.Robin
11.Killdeer
12.mourning Dove
13.Brewers Blackbird
14.Cowbird*
15.Pewee*
16.Red tailed Hawk
17.Lewis Woodpecker*
18.Yellow Warblers*
19.Bullock Orieole*
20.Luzili Bunting
21.Kestrel
22.Pine Siskin*
23.Cassins Finch*
24.Osprey
25.Turkey Vultures
26.Ferrugirous Hawk*
27.Goldfinch
28.Lesser Goldfinch*
29.Hummingbirds
30.Mtn Blue Birds
31.Fly Catcher*
32.Ravin
33.Wilsons Warbler*
34.Tree Swallows*
35.Mallard Duck
36.Canada Geese
37.barn swallow
38.spotted sandpiper
39.Great Blue Heron
40.quail
41.snipes
42.Common Night Hawk*
43.Sand Grouse*
44.Golden Eagles
45.Ruff winged Swallows*
46.House Wren*
47.Cliff Swallows*
48.Phoebe Says*
49.Vesper Sparrow*
50.Chirping Sparrow*
51.Double crested Cormorant*
52.Gray flycatcher*
53.SWage sparrow*
54.white collard dove*
55.American Coot*
56.Western Grebe
57.Ringed Neck Duck*
58.Crested Flycatcher*
59.Cedar Waxwing
60.Borthern Shoveler*
61.Harry woodpecker*
62.Lesser Scaup*
63.Ash Throated Flycatcher*
64.Calliope Hummingbird*
65.spotted Towhee*
66.Townsend warbler*
67.warbling vireo*
68.Ruby Crowned Kinglet*
69.Western wood pewee*
70.blackcapped chickadee
71.king fisher
72.Common Merganser*
73.Junco
74.yellow rump warbler*
75.falcon*
76.Northern Pintail*
77.Gadwell*
78.American Wigeon*
79.green winged teal*
80.canvas backed duck*
81.Red Headed duck*
82.Baffel head duck*
83.Ruddy duck*
84.Mutted swans
85.canada goose
86.Pied billed Grebe*
87.western grebe
88.eared grebe*
89.Horned grebe*
90.Sharpie hawk*
91.ringed billed gull
92.rock wren*
93.gray partridge*
94.quail
95.wood duck*
96.townsend solitare*
97.Northern Harrier
98.rough legged hawk
99.California Gull
100.Marsh wren*
101.Virginia Rail..heard not seen*
102.Pippet*
103.robin
104.Black crowned night heron*
105.loon*
106.pine siskins
107.Killdeer
108.rock wren* heard not seen
109.downey woodpecker
110.Great white egret
111.Snipe
112.Long billed Dowitcher*
113.Hooded Merganser*
114.Tundra Swans*
115.Hering gull
116.Merlin*
117.clarks grebe*
118.least sandpiper*
119.Lincoln sparrow*
120.savanas sparrow*
121.red headed woodpecker*
122.semi palmated plover*
123. yellow legs plover*
124.Eastern muted gull
TAHITT BIRDS
1.Myna*
2.Red-venter bulbul*
3.Zebra Dove*
4.Lesser Golden Plover
5.Common Fairy Terns*
6.Wedge tailed Sharewater*
7.Tahiti Petrel*
8.Great Pacific Heron*
9.Great Crested Terns*
10.White bellied storn Petrel*
11.Brown Noddys*
12.Rock Doves
13.Red Jungle fowl
14.Wandering Tattler*
15.Chestnut Brested Mannikin*
16.Lesser Frigate birds*
17.Swamp Harrier*
18.Polynesian Imperial Pigeon* (127) 127)
Hawaii
Maui May 5-11 2011....My first trip.
Paul and I just returned from Maui where we spent 6 days getting to really know each other. We spent hours talking, walking, and exploring both the Island and ourselves. We left the mainland knowing we liked each other and we returned much more than friends.
Maui was beautiful and yet in some ways disappointing. we had rain and clouds everyday, the sunshine came and went, and until the day we were leaving it was never really hot. For old folks like us you could say the weather was just perfect. I expected it to be like
Tahiti and it wasn't yet it was, it is much larger so you have very little intervention with the people. We stayed at a very nice place and were right on the Ocean and the people at the Condo were very welcoming. We rented a car and day one lost a tire and ended up off the road and had to change cars, so that cost us a day. Even with this happening we spent the remainder of the day birding the local area and visiting the Iao National Park, seeing the Needle, it turned out to be all good. Day two we went on a whale/dolphin watching trip. We seen Bottle nose dolphins and were treated to flying fish but no whale. Paul ended up very very sea sick and after the trip we walked the beach and stayed low key. Poor guy he was so mersible and worried about spoiling the trip. The following day we drove to the summit of Haleakala and checked out the native birds and were lucky enough to see six Nene (Hawaiian goose) which are the Hawaiian State bird. We played hide and seek with the clouds and the dormit volcanic scenes. I LOVE what they call the Silversword plant. More birding and exploration of the Island with a trip to Turtle town where we explored the different beaches and drove thru the Volcanic landscape at Makena. We were amazed by the Bayna Tree at Lahaina, which is said to be the largest tree in the world. We had three separate sightings of Turtles just down the road from Lahaina for a total of 5 turtles(or maybe all the same two just different days.) We drove the road to Hana to the very end, checked out waterfalls, visited the Hana airport, and Charles Lindbergh's grave and Paul ended up with a National Park Lifetime Membership. He said "stick with me babe and we will visit all the parks for free.
Paul and I we are a couple...we plan on remaining a couple...we have a great time together...he loves me and I him. I feel very lucky to have found a relationship like this and plan on treasuring it to the fullest. It may not be very long but We will embrace it for however long we are given. God is good.
Sunday, March 27, 2011
IT'S MY BIRTHDAQY
Today I turned 60! Amazing to think I am 60. I don't think I feel any different..I am excited about this next stage of my life. I plan on enjoying every moment of it..the good. the bad... and the sad. I am going to be grandma again..Tim and Shelly are getting married and having a baby. Amanda and Rick threw me a "non birthday party", that most of my Alaska friends couldn't attend because they were working OT. My family and friends turned out in droves and Paul got to meet the Buchta boys and they gave me their blessing. I love them so and am very happy to see them happy. Ray and Jenny had me up to their place for a day of SnowShoeing and a birthday dinner. Their two beautiful boys are starting to warm up to me and it is a joy to watch as they interact with their mom and dad. Ray is Pauls oldest boy, they have a place in McCall that sits above the river and so they outfitted me and off we went. We were out for about 2 hours, walking over virgin snow, listening to the birds sing, breathing crisp fresh air and just letting the beauty of the area sink into our souls. These wonderful people have welcomed me into their homes and lives and they make me feel very special. Yes 60 is going to be a good year for me and mine. Didn't get to jump from the plane today because of weather but will try again next week and the next week until I get it done. Going to see Elton John on the 9th, off to Debois the next week end and in May Paul and I are going to Maui for a week. I like this man ...I like the fun we have the laughter and the talks and sharing each others families and I like this man. I no longer have to be alone unless I want to be. I love my friends and my family real and extended. YES 60 is good....I am healthy...my mind is well....I have potential. Look out 60 here I come!
Sunday, March 20, 2011
MARCH 2011
I HATE WINTER! I AM SO READY FOR SUMMER!
Ok I will quite screaming....Nothing much happened this month.
PA and I are still hanging out, we went to Pocatella last week end and fininshed moving his Heidi up to Boise. It was a beautiful weather week end ...thank you God! Now they can just focus on getting her thru these next few months.
We also helped his grandson Ian celeberated his 2nd continuation year. He has lovely daughters and his grandchildren are very nice. It is clear to see that he is a great poppa.
I have started birding again and have had two very nice trips. One to Nampa by myself and one to Fort Boise with the SIBI group. Next month RoseMary, Paul, and myself are going to Deboise Idaho to a Grouse Festival. This will be a life bird for all of us. YES I said it Paul is now birding with us....I can be such a bad influnce on people....two of my friends have now joined the birding trail.
My birthday is next week end and weather permitting Paul and I are going to Sky Dive from an airplaine....will write about it... Goodby to my 50's hello 60's..looking forward to this new trip.
Paul and I are planning a trip to Maui in May with some friends.
Ok I will quite screaming....Nothing much happened this month.
PA and I are still hanging out, we went to Pocatella last week end and fininshed moving his Heidi up to Boise. It was a beautiful weather week end ...thank you God! Now they can just focus on getting her thru these next few months.
We also helped his grandson Ian celeberated his 2nd continuation year. He has lovely daughters and his grandchildren are very nice. It is clear to see that he is a great poppa.
I have started birding again and have had two very nice trips. One to Nampa by myself and one to Fort Boise with the SIBI group. Next month RoseMary, Paul, and myself are going to Deboise Idaho to a Grouse Festival. This will be a life bird for all of us. YES I said it Paul is now birding with us....I can be such a bad influnce on people....two of my friends have now joined the birding trail.
My birthday is next week end and weather permitting Paul and I are going to Sky Dive from an airplaine....will write about it... Goodby to my 50's hello 60's..looking forward to this new trip.
Paul and I are planning a trip to Maui in May with some friends.
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